I work crazy hours (3p-3a) usually 4 days a week. Forvthe past few weeks i have been cutting down my hours because i miss not being home. Two nights ago i wanted to have sex and my husband turned me down, no big deal, but what i dont get is every morning he wakes upto masterbate in the other room. I confronted him this morning because i told him he wakes me up every morning when he is in the other room. He said the reason he does it so often is because i am not around as much. I said fair enough, but since cutting back my hours he still has no interest in me but continues to get up early every morning masterbate. It frusterates me because all he has to do is wake me up, or if i am already up just ask. Instead he doesnt say a word and just goes to the other room. We have bedn married fir 5yrs without any children.