After 6 years dating I am getting ready to marry man with ocpd. I have a 20 year old and 17 year old in the home. I am afraid that when he moves in the rules will change and he will start obsessing over things my teens do and start yelling at them.
Sounds silly but we have argued over everything. He is a good guy but now I see the symptoms worsening. Can' t make decisions, cannot be flexible, always has to plan eating into every day activity, to the point of missing important activities if there is not enough time to eat. Cannot throw any junk mail away and cant focus on what is important to keep. Will not read up on his own disorder and will not miss work for therapy. No one knows what goes on behind closed doors but those who know this condition. I did get him on meds. Will getting him into therapy help?