I would like to understand my a woman would be silent in bed if she's enjoying herself. She doesn't get any pleasure from vaginal sex alone but she does orgasm from oral sex and from me rubbing her clitoris. I feel like sex is awkward when the room is completely silent and a woman's moans really turn me on which is really making me feel like I'm missing out on how enjoyable sex is. Sometimes when I hear neighbors having sex it really brings me down because I feel I will never experience that. It really bothers me but I obviously don't want her faking these sounds because that won't solve anything. Am I asking too much? I really love her and don't want this to be a dealbreaker for me after all this time together but I also don't want to live the rest of my life sexually unsatisfied.