While I've never had sex, my boyfriend and I have recently been playing around with each other. He's fingered me a few times (through my clothes - once i took my shorts off), and one time he was completely naked on top of me, while I was still wearing shorts and underwear (this time he came, but it went on the bed - we basically dry humped). the time he fingered me deeply, he was still wearing clothes fully and I'm pretty sure he only touched his penis after, which had a little pre-c*m. I honestly can't remember if he touched me again after that. I have also performed oral sex on him twice, and both times I got some of his c*m in my mouth. However, I was very careful not to touch myself after.
My period was due two days ago, and it's normally pretty regular and punctual, but it hasn't come yet. I'm a bit paranoid that I could've possibly gotten pregnant from it? Sperm can't soak through layers of clothes, I know that, but maybe when he fingered me, maybe something could've gotten on his hands? He says there's no chance, and my best friend (who is very experienced in this area) also said that there's no way. but still why hasn't my period come? That's what bothers me the most - the absence. I'm getting these light cramp feelings in my stomach (way lighter than what I get during my period), and the usual forehead acne I get when it's coming, but I'm getting a lot of white discharge instead. Is this a sign of pregnancy or something? Please help me, I'm so scared.