Me and boyfriend has been living together for a little over a year now...,and our sex life has taking a plunge on our relationship,sex is about getting to know a person in a emotional way..it don't seems to bother him that we only have sex once every two mo right now its been five months and feel like i"m his server not his lover i say server because i do everything for him cook,clean ect...everthing but sex...starting to think he's using me for his company i"m 49 and he's 61..yes, i love him.. but this ridiculous...he's also in secure because of it he knows he's not doing his job in the bed roo