I have talked to him about it several times and he just gives me excuses. He doesn't like how he looks bc of his weight, his back or something hurts, he doesn't feel good, he is depressed bc he doesn't bring home alot of money and I make all of the money. He also says that he doesn't want to bc of the baby that she will hear us and if she is in the same room he cant. I have caught porn on his phone, gay porn too and it's disturbing. Idk what more I can do. I have told him he might lose me someday bc I have needs too. I have been pondering if I should just tell him if he doesn't I'm gonna go find it elsewhere which that wouldn't be hard to do.