My husband is always saying things like "I'm gonna rock your world in bed." or "You know I wanna punish your cooter.". I've told him before I don't find that kind of talk attractive, but he doesn't seem to care what I think. Then the last time we were being intimate I asked him to change positions so it wasn't as painful and he flipped out and left the bedroom. I told him I just wanted him to cuddle more, so I could get ready for sex and that the position was painful for me. He accused me of questioning his manhood and cheating and didn't talk to me for half a day. I'm losing my patience here, what can I do that will help the situation?