Me and my boyfriend have been together for three years. We have been waiting to have sex and now we feel emotionally and physically ready. 3 weeks ago, I started birth control for the first time. My doctor did tell me that after two weeks, I was protected. Anyways, me and my boyfriend, on two occasions, engaged in genital contact where we were just rubbing/grinding with no condom, just my birth control protection. Yesterday, he actually tried to penetrate me without a condom, but it hurt so bad so I told him to stop. I'm 99% sure he didn't go inside... After that we just continued to rub our genitals and so on. He was holding his penis a majority of the time at the tip, and he is reassuring me that he would've felt pc come out since his hand was there. He did NOT ejaculate, I know this for a fact. I'm just worried because I've only been on birth control for a short amount of time, and isn't there always a slight chance of pregnancy when a penis is in the presence of a vagina? :( I'm really freaked out and I've been really upset since.. I hate feeling paranoid. Thank you