My boyfriend and I have been fooling around for months now. It only consists of hand jobs, blow jobs and he fingers me. I'm on birth control pills, and try to be as careful as possible in the moment. Anyways, every month I get my period when I have about 4 non hormonal pills left in the pack. My boyfriend and I have fooled around a lot this past month. We just do the normal stuff and we have never had sexual intercourse. I'm worried that he might have touched himself and then fingered me, and it could have allowed some sperm to get inside of me. I know for a fact that he's never touched his own sperm and then my vagina.. I've been reading online to answer this but the answers are so diverse that I'm so confused. I'm worried I'm pregnant because I have not yet gotten my period and I was expecting it today. However, this morning (my idiot, paranoid, worrisome self) took a pregnancy test and it was negative. I went to pee and when I wiped it was mostly discharge but had some (not a lot) blood with it.. Is that even a symptom or is it something more concerning. Am I getting my period? I'm just worried because I haven't gotten it yet and it's freaking me out.. is it possible to become pregnant from the stuff that I'm doing? He has never came anywhere except in my hands and my mouth (and my apologies if that's way TMI) I'm sorry that I sound so stupid but I could seriously use some answers. What is going on? The discharge is a creamy white, but has a brownish, pinkish tint, with some clearly visible smalll lines and tiny stretchy blood.