I love my fiance more than anything, he is supportive and otherwise complementary. However for the past year he has not been sexually interested in me we go months at a time and then sometimes we will have really bad quick 'pump pump' no foreplay or kissing, and I feel like this is just to shut me up but actually makes me more upset. We are like best friends otherwise but that is what he feels like now a best friend that I live with but am I wrong to want more? I keep hearing that this is just what happens, you have great sex at the start and then none. What can I do? we had a conversation about it and he said I need to be bigger with my signals which I totally took on board but all that changed is it become more embarrassing for me when I make an effort and get shot down.