Hi there. I'm a 20 year straight female. I don't know where else to look. I've been brought up as a Christian and to believe it to have sex before marriage or masterbate. I have tried to have sex with a guy in the past and could not get his penis in. It physically would not go in (using Lube too). I tried to masterbate and bought a dildo, vibrators and lubes. I can insert things that are small. I find it too painful to enter three fingers and two fingers in quite uncomfortable. I went to talk to a sexual health doctor and told her I thought I might have situational vaginismus but she had never heard of it. When I masterbate I get close to orgasm but then the feeling just before is too sensitive and i have to stop. I've tried reading erotica, watching porn or fantasising but it doesn't help. I want to know if perhaps my upbringing has brought on something or what. Please help because I can't have pleasure in my life from sex. Thanks