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I Became Pregnant While Taking Birth Control Pills

By Susan Schade
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I had taken birth control pills without knowing that I was pregnant.
It is recommended that you STOP taking the birth control pill as soon as you find out that you are pregnant. If you have discovered that you are pregnant and have been taking the pill, consult your doctor.

I traced my weeks backwards and found the day that our new baby was conceived. I believed that I was very diligent about taking my pill. Why did it fail me this month when it had always been reliable before?

When taken correctly, the birth control pill is 99.9% effective. There are factors that will bring this percentage rate down. If you miss days, if you are taking antibiotics that decrease the effectiveness, or even not taking the pill at the same time each day. If this is your form of birth control, then you must follow the steps in taking it correctly.

I have no way of knowing why the pill failed me. It seems only likely that somehow I made an error in taking it. However, my husband and I believe that against all odds (including, birth control) our baby boy’s existence was truly meant to be. We couldn’t be happier.

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It would really help me if you would tell me how far back you calculated your baby was conceived before your 3rd week of the pill when you started getting cramps and nausea. Please and thank you. :)

November 10, 2014 - 10:56am
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October 21, 2014 - 6:09am
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So I've missed my birth control pills a couple of times but when I take my pill I would take 2 when I missed the one the day before, and I've always got my period on the green pill, but this month I was late 4 days but then got my period on the 5th green pill and got my period only 3 days. I've been having cravings, a lot of back pain, headaches, and sometimes nausea. I took 2 pregnancy test both came out negative. So I'm not sure what it might be. Anything in mind? Someone that went threw the same problem I'm going threw?

October 20, 2014 - 8:42pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

I am having the exact same problem. It's nothing to worry about. I know for a fact I'm not pregnant because my boyfriend is 1000 miles away and when I came back from visiting him I was paranoid about pregnancy because I hadn't had my period in two months and had starting having "Pregnancy" symptoms, everything from heart palpitations to nausea but all pregnancy tests were coming up negative. So I asked the doctor to do blood work to see if what was happening. I was 100% negative and nothing came up and all the symptoms went away a few days later. My doctor thinks it was all stress because I was terrified of being pregnant because I'm only 21 and not ready for that. (I'd much rather be married and stable). Now on this new pack I've been getting cramps, aches, headaches, and nausea... which are all side effects of the pill to begin with. However, if you've taken antibiotics for anything you may want to wait awhile and then take another pregnancy test. I always use Early Response. It hasn't let me down yet.

January 29, 2015 - 6:49am
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My husband and I had our son on this past Christmas Eve 2012 and we use condoms every time that have not ever broken . Also I'm on birth control I always take it on Time and never miss. I am constantly feeling cramping that's just notisable and have a good bit of discharge and this past period I was four days late and had a much lighter period and my stomach has been so upset and I've been nautious and last night I vomited . Is this normal? Or could I be pregnant ? Even though I don't see how I could be with all the precations we are taking.

March 29, 2013 - 5:45pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Did you find out if you were pregnant? I'm having similar symptoms. Which BC are you on?

August 30, 2013 - 12:05pm
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i am on birth control from last 3 months,i complete 3 refills,i am expected my periods on 10th of dec but today is 13 and no sing of periods.i am using bc pills to correct my periods should i stop taking pills or continue?am i pregnant?i have pain in my back and leg.plz helpp me

December 13, 2012 - 2:14pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

It sounds like regular period pain. The only way to tell you are pregnant is to take a test either the one you buy at the pharmacy or the one the doctor administers (Blood Work, Urine Sample). My period was not completely regulated only 3 months in. And it's always suggested you use another form of birth control for 3 months in to the pill because it has to get in your system effectively. Which is why you need to start it before you even become sexually active to ensure it's success.

January 29, 2015 - 6:53am
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Hi. I've been on the pill since August 16th and I take it every single day at the exact same time. I've never missed a pill. My boyfriend and I have sex a couple times a month when we get to see each other and we have protected and unprotected sex. The unprotected sex is far less often and when we do, he always pulls out before he ejaculates. I took my placebo pills and had some very light, almost nonexistent period which eventually ended. I have extreme paranoia and anxiety about being pregnant. I don't have any symptoms except extreme exhaustion but that's been going on ever since on started the pill. Nothing else. I just need some outside reassurance. Can you help me?

November 16, 2012 - 8:55am
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HELP. I have been on birth control for a year and 2 months now. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years have regular unprotected sex. I usually take my pill regularly every night but I am a women constantly on the go between school and work so I forget to pack my pills sometimes when my plans changebut the second I get home i take the missed one. That has happeened twice this past month. Also, lately I have been having nausea randomly but do not vomit and my eating habits have changed. I have started to get grossed out my chicken and meats. I begin to feel nauseous after eating a couple bites and i love meat! I have lost weight at least 5lbs. I have been getting very bad lower back and neck pains. Yesturday I started getting flu like symptoms. My nose is runny and I have a constant headache and pressure in my sinuses. I feel bloated and am constipated and have been gasy. My body aches and I am always tired. I can't just sit down and relax without dozing off. My period is due in 2 days but my previous period was very short and light. Could I be pregnant?

November 5, 2012 - 2:33am
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