Female Ejaculation: Myth or Reality?

I'm glad to find out there are more women out there having these multi-ejaculations. However, my concern is knowing when enough is enough; how many times can my body ejaculate and stay healthy? Every time I have sex I ejaculate at least 10 to 15 times and my husband and I can not afford a 12th mattress. MY husband enjoys it, but he is concern about the amount of fluids that I lose. Also, the only reason why I stop at 10 or 15 ejaculations is because he is done. Should I drink more water?

when I experinced this for the first time, my husband, had read about it. so we knew what to expect or thought we did. after my first experiance I stayed on the bed for along time totally relaxed not wanting to move. I felt every nerve in my body tinging. the next day I felt HAPPY. I don't feel this way often I suffer from depression, this was a nice change for me. We are still learning how to make this happen and I do enjoy working on it together

It is good to know that this in normal, and happens in other women!! When it first happened my boyfriend thougt that I had peed. I tried to assure him that I did not. Since then my husband likes it when it happens and always brings the towels to bed. Sometimes I joke and say that we need to order some sham-wows. The amount of fluid does vary from time to time, but it always seems to be a lot. This article was very informative and I appreciated it.

My second wife discovered Ejaculation for herself and that it is not a myth, before we even had intercourse. In the early days of our relationship she had been celibate for a couple of years after her husband left her and she rarely masturbated. During a "phone sex" session she told me that she had made a "big mess",whilst penetrating herself fairly briskly, with an average sized vibrator (switched off) which happened on several subsequent occassions (much to our mutual fascination). Soon after we became (physically) sexually active and I experienced this for myself first hand. We perceive it as a very intimate and erotic act and we include it in our sex life fairly regularly.
Fluid emission varies greatly in both volume and density, from clear urine like fluid,via milky runny stuff, to white sperm textured fluid, anywhere from a spoonful to a cupfull.
Having spent Three weeks in France working, After reacquainting ourselves, I look forward most to what should be a fairly spectacular event in both volume and density and an expression of our intimacy. She has also expressed her anticipation and enthusiasm for this to happen ASAP.

Hi. My girlfriend told me that she has ejaculated in the past and she used to do it frequently. The last time she did it was approximately two years ago. We have been in a relationship now for 9 months and so far she has been unable to ejaculate. We've tried all the positions that rub the right area to ejaculate but despite her pushing, she can't do it. Or I'm not doing something right. Instead, she gets a pain in her lower abdomin that builds up and up with the pressure but without the release. The longer we continue the more the pressure builds up until she can't take it anymore. I'm not sure if it's me, she tells me it's not. We are very open with each other and she says I'm not doing anything wrong and it's her. We both agree our sex life is amazing, we do it everywhere and have great orgasms. Is this normal and will she do it again? Thanks. P.

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Thanks for your question!

She may do it again, she may not but I think focusing on it will cause her not to, rather than achieve the result you're looking for. That's too much pressure.

If you sex life is wonderful - just keep doing what your doing without any focus on her trying to 'perform' for you both. She is probably in pain from the physical pressure. She has said you are not doing anything wrong, that "it's her" but she is not doing anything "wrong" either - please reassure her of that.

There also may be some kind of physical change in her body that doesn't allow it to happen anymore. If all is well with you both, enjoy your healthy sex life as is. It sounds like you have a great relationship - enjoy it as it is now, rather than how things used to be.

this happens to me too.i am trying to figure out how to make it happen on a regular basis.it doesnt feel like a "real" orgasm unless i ejaculate.it is a little weird when im with someone new often they are surprised,my last boyfriend was kind of freaked out so i told the new guy so i wont scare him but it hasnt happened yet. im a little shy about it now though i hold back a little because i dont want to freak him out im thinking we may not be at that level trust-wise yet if i cant let go.But for someof the others-it hasnt happened with every guy sometimes even though hes not doing anything wrong it just doesnt and if i think about it then it usually doesnt.i have to be really free and relaxed.

Hi. Im glad I found this and that i am not alone! The first time this happened to me I was shocked...i thought something was wrong. Im a 33 yr old woman who has had approx 15 sexual partners and this just started happening a year ago with a new guy. I have to admit, he is definitely the largest in size that I have had sex with could this be why it had never happened to me before? He loves it, and even will go "down there" when its happening. I would say I ejaculate about 75% of the time.. and it is always alot. If he keeps going, I keep going. To the point where I get extremely dehydrated after. We make the towel jokes too! The thing with me is, I dont always orgasm with intercourse, but I do still ejaculate. I know every woman is different but is that normal?

That's my question too skyeblue! I am 41 and 4 months pregnant and never EVER squirted. I have been with my boyfriend for a year now and i experienced this with him for the first time last summer. HE noticed. He said, "oh, I didn't know you were a squirter". I said "a what?" Then he told me. I was shocked and embarrassed! I did think it was urine. No stains, just really watery. I can feel myself getting to a point where it's going to happen, but it doesn't FEEL like a clitoral orgasm or deep vaginal orgasm. Am I urinating or ejaculating? Being new to this I am embarrassed but I can't control it. Especially being pregnant I am questioning if it is urine since it happens nearly every time we have intercourse. He on the other hand gets extremely aroused and thinks it is sexy as hell. Am I normal?