I am 40 years old and a mommy to two children 3 and 6. I've been married to my husband for 7 years. Something has always be off about our relationship. It has continued to get worse and worse. I have been suffering through undiagnosed depression for at least 3 years and I really thought that something was wrong with me. Recently things have gotten so bad and my children are witnessing such meanness and negative behavior towards me. I have come to he conclusion it must stop .