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Can you get pregnant without the man ejaculating?

By July 21, 2009 - 12:51pm
 
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I'm very young and i have not ever had intercourse but my boyfriend rubbed his penis on my clit up and down but did not put it in my hole. He did not wear any protection and neither did he come and his penis was dry but is there any way that i can get pregnant?

PLEASE HELP ASAP!! :(

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I had un protected sex with my boyfriend twice in one night than a few days later we had un protected sex again, we than again had sex two days after that all of these day were un protected, with at least two times of un protected sex on all three days. Is there a higher chance i could be pregnant because I didnt use protection all three days?

January 26, 2012 - 3:00pm
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Hi. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and he used a condom. We then had sec in the middle of the night. I was awakened in my sleep and we used a condom although I can't remember completely. It was very late and pitch black in the room. I got my period last month but I've been having fatigue a lot lately and eating slightly more. I've taken two home pregnancy tests and they both were negative however at the time of taking them I was taking antibiotics for a tooth problem. Could the antibiotic effect the test results? I am due for my next period on Monday and have a doctors appointment on Weds.

January 26, 2012 - 12:06am
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You won't know until your next period if you're pregnant or not, so if you don't get it around the 3rd February then you might be pregnant. If any sperm did get in there then peeing won't make any difference. Best thing to do is get a test if you're worrying, and make sure you use protection from now on, otherwise you're going to be stressed out all the time and if you're not his first you could catch something so be careful.
Good luck

January 25, 2012 - 7:09pm
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Hey I had sex with my boyfriend but he came outside of my vagina. I immediately went to the restroom and peed. Do you think i could be pregnant? Because i have heard you could only get pregnant once in a month. I had my period on the 3 through the 9 of this month and had sex on the 22. Im really scared.

January 25, 2012 - 6:10pm
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Hi guys,
I've read a couple of comments and I think it's really worrying...

There's only one sure way to make sure you don't get pregnant and that's to have your own contraception and to make sure he wears a condom as well. Neither are 100% effective but if you do both then you'll be as safe as possible. I don't know what the system is where you live, but you should be able to go to your doctor or a family planning clinic and get the contraceptive pill and free condoms at any age if you say you're sexually active or are planning on starting.

Doctor-patient confidentiality means they can't tell anyone so don't worry about anyone finding out. There is also a small implant you can have put in your arm to stop you getting pregnant. It doesn't hurt and you can't see it at all so nobody will know you have it. This would be best if you think you won't remember to take the pill every day. It lasts for 3 years so once it's in you can't get pregnant for 3 years.

However, the pill/implant only protects you against pregnancy!!! There are lots of nasty infections that you can still get if the guy doesn't wear a condom - the worst is HIV/Aids which is life-threatening and there is no cure for it. Please, even if you aren't having full sex, even if he isn't coming inside you - make sure he wears a condom. If he doesn't wear a condom you can catch any infections or diseases that he's got. Some infections can make it impossible to have children later in life (when you might want them). You wouldn't want to risk your health like that when it's so simple to protect yourself.

I know guys can be pushy sometimes about things like this, but guys come and go, and you're the one left with the health problems or a baby at the end of it.

First, don't let anyone pressure you into having sex if you're not ready for it. If they truly like you and respect you then they will want to wait until you feel happy to have sex. Secondly, if you are happy to do it, make sure you have your own contraception and that they ALSO USE A CONDOM. Again, if they refuse to wear one it's for selfish reasons and they are not thinking about you. Don't be pushed around.

I know someone who had to have an abortion and whatever your views are about it, she was really messed up for a long time. Don't put yourself in a position where you are deciding whether to abort your baby. It's not worth the pain to yourself or the child.

Don't be scared to tell him how you feel and what you want. If he ignores you then he doesn't care about you, which means he's not worth your time and not worth risking your health for.

January 25, 2012 - 10:25am
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Anonymous

My story was the one before this girl's and I just wanted to update you guys. I didn't have to take a test because yesterday I got my period! I'm so happy. My boyfriend was kind of bummed but he understands 19 is young so no more unprotected sex like I said (:
Good luck to the girl above.

January 22, 2012 - 11:21pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Actually mine was the one about the bf who fell down the stairs but I'm not prego. Thanks for the advice!

January 22, 2012 - 11:27pm
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I dont know about posting anything and dont know how to put my words together, but i am just worried and i need to have somewhat of an anwser, my bf and I had some fun a few nights ago and we wanted to see what it was like just for a moment, he was dry i know this from giving a handj it did not feel moist and then we... yeah and was not protected. but the only thing is only a minute i was ontop of him and he only "humped" what ever words to be used there, only less then seven times only one of those pushed more into me sortof, not really far at all and i moved away quickly. and the others missed or just rubbed. his penis was a little hard. he did Not ejaculate or anything like this nor any time before. we stopped and literary it was only a minute, it was our first time. after words there was no blood or anything like that so foth the seal was not broken and plus he did not even go very far into me at all just slightlymy period is less the 6-7 days away and have regular ones and past that halfway mark. Please tell me what are the chances of me getting preg? we are both young please could you all tell me something? anything? like to what are the odds of actually being preg. I am truly worried

January 22, 2012 - 9:53pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

There is always risk of pregnancy whenever the penis touches or enters the vagina. Even if you said he didn't ejaculate, he had precum on his penis from when it got hard. There's less of a chance of getting pregnant from precum than cum directly, but there's still a chance. If your period isn't due yet, just relax. Stressing can stall your period. If your period is a week or more late, go buy a test. Until then just relax. I got mine 6 days after I was supposed to due to me stressing or I assume. Take it day by day and calm down. Im the one who posted about my bf falling down the stairs. Anyway, good luck!

January 23, 2012 - 12:05am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

ok thnks I'm just worried and kind of scared to be

January 23, 2012 - 6:38am
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