We have twin eight-year-old girls and they now see this. We just spent a weekend camping and he was in a horrible mood the entire time and ruined it for us. He doesn't call me names but he makes smarta$$ comments to me in a condescending way. He speaks very rudely to me. When I call him out on it, he says "this is the way I am, if you don't like it, you can leave." Yet when he is well rested, he will write me a card that says I deserve so much better. I know that I do! When he's well rested, it is all good. But he doesn't do a good job of taking care of himself. I'd like a commitment from him that he will do so!