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I'm 21 years old and I really dont have much of a sex drive???

By December 13, 2011 - 5:57pm
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I'm 21 and i have a one year old son and i have been married for 3 years now but i have not much of a sex drive. I think my husband is sexy and i see him and want to have sex but when the times comes down to it i just cant do it. the blood is not flowing and the need to do it is just not there. my husband has a high sex drive and i wish i had one. I have depression and ADHD . I try my best to work my self up but still no help. i have tried this drops my friends had and still nothing. I have watched porn, took this drops my friends have given me and still nothing. we have sex at lest once a month is that. I need help sex is post to just come to u but for me it does not. how do i get my sex drive up?????

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Caring for a one year old child and chronic depression are two reasons why have a low sex drive.

The fatigue that comes with the demands of raising an infant can put a damper on desire to have sex.

A majority of individuals with untreated depression have a decreased sex drive.

Are you currently receiving treatment for depression?



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