My boyfriend and I are both 20 years old with a baby. He has suddenly not wanted sex at all and im starting to get worried. I asked if its to do with me and he says that its just not the same anymore since the baby. I have tried kegal excercises, weights and even gels but he doesnt want a barr of it :(. I have tried sexy lingerie, baths, showers, promting massages and even body paints but with no luck. Im confused because he will gladly accept oral :S or sometimes just wants to play..... Any suggestions of what i should do???