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My boyfriend wants to wait

By Anonymous December 9, 2012 - 11:30pm
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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and for the longest time, I didnt want to have intercourse. I am still a virgin and always wanted to wait. He wanted to do it (so eager!) about 3-4 months into the relationship. I am now ready but he says he's not ready anymore... what does this mean?????? He says my "wanting to wait" has rubbed off on him and wants it to be at the right time... I am getting to frustrated now and think he doesnt love me physically or at all anymore. Dont like the rejection...

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Hi Anon,

Welcome to EmpowHER.  He might feel it's not the right time for you both to have sex, for many reasons.  But especially, depend on beliefs and many other.  You need to let him know how you feel and together you might be able to come to an agreement. 



December 10, 2012 - 8:59am
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