My boyfriend went inside me for only like 5 seconds and didn't come. Could i get pregnant from that?

By am2429 October 1, 2009 - 7:27am

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I'm really scared about this because this is not what my boyfriend and I believe. I don't know what we were thinking. We believe that you should wait to have sex until marriage. My last period ended on Labor Day weekend and I am trying to be patient for the next one but it's killing me. I think i am bloated but it seems like it's taking forever for me to have my period. I'm only 20, not married, and went against mine and my families beliefs. It is wrong to have sex or even get pregnant before marriage. I can't have a child. I am so scared. I don't know what to think. Please help me!

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Diane Porter

Am2429,

Welcome to EmpowHer, and thanks so much for your question. I'm very glad you found us.

First of all, you are an adult. No one but you and your boyfriend can tell you what is right or wrong for you, either sexually or otherwise. What makes something wrong for one person that is fine for another has to do with your beliefs and your desires. You clearly are in love with your boyfriend and are in a committed relationship. It should be for the two of you to decide.

The beliefs we grow up with, from family values and religion, are very important to us, and usually form the core of our own belief system. But if we choose something different for ourselves, it doesn't necessarily make us "wrong." The only thing that is truly "wrong," sexually speaking, is if one person forces themselves on another person who is unwilling.

It is very slightly possible to become pregnant when a man doesn't ejaculate, because he has pre-ejaculate fluid on his penis, and that contains sperm. When in the month did you have sex? Are you familiar with when you ovulate?

How far apart are your cycles usually, and are they regular?

Try not to freak out so much; stress itself can affect your hormones and delay your period. Since your last period was over Labor Day, you're really not even late yet, or not by much, am I correct?

October 1, 2009 - 9:41am