My boyfriend and I haven't been together long. We have known eachother for almost a year and have been together about 4 months. We now live together, big step I know. When we first got together it was every other day, sometimes a couple times a day. I am his ideal type from what I have seen and heard. He is 28 and I am 22. We have not had sex in 6 weeks. There was no gradual reduction of frequency, it just suddenly stopped. At first I would try to get him in the mood by touching or whatever, then I tried wearing sexier clothes. Then I just gave up and stopped trying. I don't want to be rejected anymore because, well duh, it hurts. I have talked to him about it and he says its nothing wrong with me and that his ex wife had the same questions, that he sometimes goes for months without sex. But I am starting to wonder what's wrong with me. I have heard that there is a condition that some men have that causes them to not want sex for extended periods of time (dr. Oz) is this true?? Is there anything I can do. I'm not trying to brag but I am a very attractive woman, so I don't know what's going on. He is the type to tell me (or anyone) how it is, he's straightforward and doesn't play games and is a very honest person. I've been in love with him for longer than we've been together and I am not walking away from this relationship, unless something shady is going on.... however as an individual with enough emotional scars ( every man/boy whatever you wanna call them I have dated has cheated on me) things like this break my confidence and make me wonder.... is there any advise you have for me please?? I can't take much more...its not just the sex I need/want...its the emotional connection.
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