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my boyrfiend does not want to have sex..

By Anonymous March 11, 2012 - 4:38pm
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I have a new boyfriend, we;ve been dating for a couple of months. We had sex for the first time quite early on, and while our relationship has been great and we've gotten very close, I get the feeling he does not want to sleep with me anymore, i.e. when i 'make a move' he just kisses me but then turns away. Since we got together we've had sex maybe 5-6 times. I did not have that much experience before him, and our taste do seem to differ a lot. I am, however ready to try anything new, and I have tried to tell him about it.

I;m not sure about what to do, because I'm afraid talking about it will make him feel self-conscious. And I'm not sure how to 'seduce' him, as I've never really had to do that before with a guy.
So I need some advice on what to do...

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Hi Anon,

Unfortunately, it seems like you may have to do the one thing that you fear doing. Talk with him. If he does in fact avoid you like the plague, the way you say he does then there is a reason and only he can tell you what it is. 

Please keep us posted and also take a look through some of our other similar posts.



March 11, 2012 - 6:53pm
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