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one year hv passed to my mariage.if now i want to plan a child but my husband not,he said every thing will be fine but my frnds says ,cause of gap my periods,now i should plan a baby,so what shold i do?i'm be 26 in feb

By Anonymous December 23, 2011 - 5:07am
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Dear Anonymous, 

I think it's important that you and your husband are on the same page. After all, you aren't having a baby with your friends, you're having it with your husband. Has he told you why he doesn't want to try for a baby? What are his insecurities regarding having children? It isn't uncommon for couples to wait a couple of years after marriage to decide to start conceiving.

What are YOUR concerns? If you are turning 26 soon, you are still young and have time to wait another year or two... having irregular periods does not mean that you will not be able to conceive in a couple of years. 

Please address both your concerns and your husbands with him and you will hopefully find a solution to your dilemma.

Best of luck,


December 23, 2011 - 7:27am
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