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By March 10, 2017 - 10:12pm
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I have a pregnancy question me and my boyfriends has been trying to make a baby for a year now . Nothing has happened he cM in me every time I never got pregnant . We was on bad term on September 17 I had sex with another guy with a condum the comdum off inside of me that night I found it later that night inside my vagina and took it out . I usually get my period last four days of the month I got my period around September 27 28 29 it's like 3-4 days every month usually . Then in October I took a pregnancy test and found out I'm pregnant September 17 was the first time I had sex with the one night stand guy and last time any time before that I'm having sex with my boyfriend with no condum and he cM in me can I please get some answers I am now 23 weeks pregnant and one day it just weird me and my actual boy friend has been trying for a baby for over a year and as soon as I have sex with one other guy one time with a condum I get pregnant is it for my boyfriend of this other guy me and my actual boyfriend have sex all the time and we had sex before and after September 17 and he cM in me every time

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Hi, Whitney.

Thank you for your post.

The highest risk of pregnancy is during the second and third weeks of the menstrual cycle. While a normal cycle is considered anywhere between 21 and 35 days, the average is about 28 days. Ovulation (the time when a woman is fertile) occurs mid-month, this averages to day 14 every month give or take several days before and after. If a woman has unprotected sex around this time, she may get pregnant. There is 20% chance of pregnancy every month.

There is no way for me to tell you who the father is with any certainty. I can only provide you with information on when pregnancy is likely to happen. What does your doctor say?


March 11, 2017 - 5:57am
(reply to Helena)

So you can't tell me what you think ? Or what it could. Be from the information I gave you

March 11, 2017 - 6:52am
Guide (reply to whitney2000001)

Correct. It could be either based on the information you are giving. You say you had sex one time with that one guy on Sept 17, but you also say you had sex with your boyfriend before that and after that. You also say you had your period at the end of September, and yet you are pregnant.

What does your doctor think? I would definitely discuss this with him (or her) for a more definitive answer.


March 11, 2017 - 8:11am
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