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What do you do if you have never had sex but you haven't had your period for about 32 days?

By May 17, 2009 - 8:36pm
 
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I am almost 14 years old. It may seem weird that I am on a website to ask about my lady problems but my mother and sister are no help and my dad, well, he is my dad. I have had my period for over a year and from then to now I have kept an accurate record of when I have gotten and when I have ended my menstrual cycle. Since January or December of this year (well not December, but ya) I have gotten my period on the 16th. It is now may and I expected to get my period yesterday but it didn't come. Hopefully I thought it would come today but it didn't. I am now really worried because I know I can't be pregnant since I have never had sex and it doesn't seem normal today to have not of had your period in 32 days. I have no idea what to do except to just wait and stress myself out. Please help me because I am not sure if this is just normal or if I am really going crazy.

Thank you very much,

A. N. W.

(don't laugh at me my parent's didn't mean to name me after a root beer company.)

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I am 13 and i never had sex before, but my period has not even come I've been waiting every month for it to come and it does not get here what do I do?

November 6, 2014 - 4:18pm
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Anonymous

I'm 13, and i haven't gotten my period in a week but im pretty sure i am not pregnant because i never had sex. & im really worried why hasn't my period come !! pls help me

October 21, 2014 - 8:43pm
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Anonymous

i am 19 never has sex, and have had my piriod. it was regular but it began to now i have not had it for nearly two years. i have had ultra sounds, thyroid test, and exct. is there a reason for this or will it come back i am a little over whight and i ride horses. any help is welcomed!

September 30, 2014 - 11:15pm
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Anonymous

I'm now 14 I've had my period for about a year and a half. I've never had sex in my life. And my period is always around the same time frames 2 days early or a day or two late. It has been a week since it was meant to come. I'm super scared and I wanna tell my parents cuz my mother and her grandmothers and mom all had ovarian cancer, I'm super scared I don't know what to do!!!! I need help

August 2, 2014 - 4:43pm
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Anonymous

Hi, I'm 16, I've only had sex twice and that was last year or two years ago. I haven't had my period in almost 3 months, I was expecting it on my birthday but it didn't come. I am really worried, I need answers now! My parents are no help at all. Please, I need help!

July 18, 2014 - 7:27am
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Anonymous

I am 17 and I haven't had a period in 4 months now It used to come on track I marked it down and every thing now it is,4 months late and I'm scared I haven't had sex and it is making me stressed I need answers please I have a few medical Ishues if that might affect it
Thiroid and ashma But please can any one tell me what is going on

July 14, 2014 - 8:35am
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Im 13...I've never had sex and its june and I havent had my period...idk what's wrong my mom said that its not good and were gonna make an appointment. ...idk what to think...

June 27, 2014 - 4:39pm
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Hi I am 13 years old ive had my period for 1 year now and sence January my period has been coming like every 2 months plz help me never had sex wht does this me I really need to know im scared to tell my mom whts goingon with my period plz help me

Am I pregnant?

June 7, 2014 - 6:27am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Hi umm I'm 13 and I don't like going to the doctors but I never had sex and my mom talked to the doctor the first time they asked me when did I have my period didn't remember so my mom said it was after memorial day and that's before my birthday so ever since memorial day it was i don't know how to say it im not smart but it was after month and month but I think October through December 2014 it hasn't been on and I've never had sex in my life I'm scared if my periods not on I can't get no babies in the future and I'm scared to tell my mom about it im really scared I hate going to the doctor the most I have an appointment on January 21, 2015 and I really don't get comfortable talking to doctors when my mom is in the waiting room I really don't want them to check my body I really hate it when they have to do something that's Soo negative you just wish to get out of here I'm really scared for the appointment what am I going to do please help me I'm just a teenager that's only 13

January 4, 2015 - 9:25pm
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I am 13 years old i have had my period for 3 years now and i have always been on time and never missed but i havent had my period for 3 months now and i have never had sex but now my parents think i have because i got really sick about three weeks ago

December 25, 2013 - 4:46pm
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