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why did i bled after getting fingered

By February 2, 2013 - 9:48am
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My bf has fingered me more than once but this time I bleeded after. Im 17 and a virgin. I don't know why that happened. I'm scared and would like to know why that happened. Does it mean I would bled again next time if he fingers me.?

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Your boyfriend may have been a little rough on you this time around and sometimes this can cause an irritation or bleeding if he scraped you by accident. Another thing that may have happened is that your hymen was previously intact and now it has torn. When you lose your virginity this is usually what happens therefore causing bleeding or spotting. Your body doesn't know the difference between the object that is penetrating you-- whether it be fingers or a penis, the chance of tearing your hymen is there.

Good luck,


February 2, 2013 - 8:02pm
(reply to Rosa Cabrera RN)

Thank you.
So if my hymen is torn does it mean I'm not a virgin anymore.?

February 4, 2013 - 8:32pm
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