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Why do I experience pain during orgasm?

By July 22, 2011 - 5:46pm
 
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I am going to be 40 in less then 3 months. I have always been a sexual woman, who has enjoyed orgasms. In the last year and a half I started experiencing pain during orgasm. As soon as I feel the orgasm coming on, it feels like me uterus is contracting, and I feel a dull pain, it causes me to not orgasm the same way. This has become frustrating to me and my husband of the last 15 yrs.
I have been to my gyn and I was treated for mild dsyplasia, but he told me that does not explain the pain, he doesn't seem to know what the problem is,,,, can anyone help with this? Thanks

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Anonymous

Happens to me as well, but only in my sleep - if I don't have sex for a long time and my body starts to compensate it by erotic dreams. I suspect it might be a vaginal orgasm as I'm not able to reach it when I'm awake and clitoral orgasm doesn't cause any trouble at all. I believe it started in my 20s but might be earlier.
I am now pregnant for the first and the problem became more freaquent as our doctor recommended to stay off sex for a while and I also don't mustrubate....a bit scared of miscarriage when it happens...

November 20, 2014 - 7:36am
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Anonymous

Just a note: I as well experienced exactly the same thing. Pain DURING orgasm NOT AFTER orgasm. I have come to find out I have uterine prolapse. This means my uterus is hanging down lower than it should be. I believe the two are related. Ask your doc to check for prolapse. Don't have sex for at least a week before you go. If you have it, intercourse will push it back up to where it is suppose to be and it takes a while to descend again.

April 17, 2014 - 8:10am
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Anonymous

I'm only 28 and have experienced something similar. It's like I can't reach my full orgasim- it's cut off by a dull pain. I havnt thought of mentioning this to the gyno previously, but will now.

January 19, 2012 - 3:35pm
Guide

Hi,
I did some searching for you. I found an article by Dr. David Delvin for the website, netdoctor.com.uk He coins the term, dysorgasmia. Like you, many women who suffer from pain following orgasm could not be given a cause by their physicians. Immediate recommended treatments include taking an analgesic or non-steroidal anti-inflammatory medication or applying warmth to the lower abdomen with a heating pad. One suggestion is taking an analgesic or NSAID prior to having intercourse.
I can only suggest that you seek a second opinion from a gynecologist who may specialize in issues of painful intercourse.

July 25, 2011 - 5:19pm
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Anonymous (reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

I find that Naproxen has been working. Dysorgasmia and adenomyosis has been my problem as well as endometriosisin my colon.

April 13, 2015 - 6:51am
Guide

Hi,
Have you ever been diagnosed (by pelvic ultrasound) with uterine fibroids?
I have both uterine fibroids and experienced a strong uterine cramping with orgasm, especially close to ovulation. I just lived with it.

July 22, 2011 - 6:00pm
(reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

I have had a pelvic ultrasound and the my gyn told me that nothing showed up. Should I ask for another and mention uterine fibroids?
I have been living with this too and am tired of it. There has to be something to help.

July 22, 2011 - 6:23pm
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