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Why doesnt my bf want to have sex with me?

By Anonymous May 6, 2012 - 5:17pm
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i have been with my bf for about 2 years and we hardly have sex we have been together for 2 years and he doesnt like me touching him nor showing affection in public, he always says its because of his morals and values and at the beginning i bought all his excuses but now i am just tired its driving me to porn and cheating i havent had intimacy with anyone but i have talked and kissed other people. i love my bf alot but he has cheated on me before and honestly i dont know what to do, he literally hates everything he doesnt like coming to familes, he hates my best friend he always assumes things and he blames me for almost everything i tend to be really emotional toward him and i dont know why i am currently seeing a psychologist cause it scares me the insanity that comes out of me when he breaks up with me or does things to me, i dont know what to do i really need some help..

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Hi Anon,

Welcome to EmpowHER.  You might want to let your boyfriend know how you feel.  But if he has cheated and so have you, he doesn't want to be with you and he makes you feel like this. Why would you want to stay in a relationship with him. Am sure you will find someone else that will make you feel better and wants to be around you and doesn't cheat on you. Seeing a psychologist is the best thing. 



May 7, 2012 - 3:20am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

thank you daisy for the advice,
but he says he never cheated on me sexually he had a friendship with a individual he knew he wasnt suppose to didnt tell her he had a gf an since than we havent had any problems but the type of relationship me an him have is very different from other relationshps that i have had i thought we respected our stuff we are publically shouting out our love nor do we hang out with other people i enjoy his company and honestly i can say he is a great guy with a warm heart he seems to have alot of problems outside our relationship and i honestly see potential with each other put its a matter of growing up. i wonder if a man ever matures, i believe he is depressed and i wish i can do somethinng about it. I feel like if i do leave him as much as i will be hurt and betrayed in love i really think he might lose it, i love him as my partner but i also love him as a person and his family and i know he is a great man and has alot of morals and values that i adore, is there such thing as helping someone grow? or helping someone realizes the things they have? i believe in the saying you cannot change people but this is not about changing this about growing up, maturing helping a person that might be depressed due to a career that is not thriving due to not being sure what to do in life, money and family situations.

May 7, 2012 - 3:17pm
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