How do I know if he is seeing someone else?
My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 10 years. I first met him at work, i knew his dad before i knew him, i worked with his dad before my boyfriend was hired at the same company. When i left we were best friends for 8 months before we got together. We now own 2 houses and he has recently asked me to marry him. I love him very much and i know he loves me but we have not been "intimate" for about 2 years. When I asked him about this he says it is because I swear alot when I am angry or frustrated he finds this sexually unattractive and repulsive although he finds me attractive the swearing is a real turn off for him.. When I o out with friends he brings up me being with other guys and how does he know that I dn't cheat on him, although he knows I wouldn't because I have been cheated on in the past. I am not sure what to do. We are supposed to be getting married in less than a year but don't know how to fix this I don't honestly feel this is the only reason. What are you honest thoughts?