I spray a liquid substance every time I'm penetrated. And it's no small amount. It's a lot! I even go to the bathroom before I have sex. I've been to a urologist years ago who said my bladder was functioning fine. I hate this messy response! Also, I very rarely have orgasms in general. I can sometimes have them by myself using a vibrator, but that's about it. I think I feel guilty that it takes too long it my partner is giving me oral sex. I feel like a dysfunctional sexual partner. I feel bad....