Do any of you feel like single Moms, even though you are married? that's the way I've been feeling lately. My husband works and I'm very grateful for that. He's a kind man and a good father in his own way. but when he is home, he does very little other than surf the web and watch TV.
I do 99 percent of everything, and I mean everything. I work part time and have a flexible schedule, so I can understand doing a bit more of household chores but not like this.
At night and on weekends the kids stick with me and we play games, read books, watch TV and hubby sits at the computer. He never asks them to play, or asks to join us. He will play if they request it. I realize that it takes two to allow this to happen--him to do it and me to put up with it, so I am going to talk to him and ask him to be more involved because I don't like feeling resentful, and that's what's been happening lately. I am hoping some of you who have been there/done that with this can offer ideas on how I can approach him. what worked for you, what didn't, or even just words of support as I'm feeling very low right now. thank you for listening.