I'm 17 and in a really good realationship, he puts no pressure on me and we have the perfect amount of intamicy. I don't focus on orgasm I just sit back and enjoy, usualy I feel like I need to pee but can easily hold it, I enjoy sex I just never orgasm. I don't like oral sex performed on me and I can't orgasm from my hand or his, I really wanna expierience a full blown orgasm with him because I love him and I want to connect with him like that at least once, but I don't put pressure on myself about it. I'm just curious about things we can do to get me to orgasm with him. The only ways I've ever orgasmed were laying under the bathtub faucette, using the vibrating showerhead, using a back massager and recently rubbing a fat sharpie inbetween the lips of my vagina (I kno its weird) and I used lots of lube for the last one. Should I stop masurbating? What can I do to achieve orgasm with him, it could be mental because I was sexualy abused when I was young. I just want to achieve this next level of intamicy with my boy friend, please help!