I don't take medicine, I don't like medicine really, I take vitamins if necessary. I'm not on birth control,so none of that could be the problem. I'm a healthy person for the most part. I'm a server, I walk atleast 3 miles or more a day and i go to concerts, music shows once a week usually and will dance all night long, I rarely drink carbonated beverages or eat fast food, only when I'm having craving. a few times a month maybe,i generally eat vegetables,fruits,pasta oh but i love cheese but i dont think my diet is the problem. But I don't have a big desire to do much. I feel lazy outside of work. I sleep atleast 9 hrs or more sometimes a night, and its hard for me to get up. I get really moody sometimes, and I hate it. I get lost in my head, or I'll snap at somebody and just be angry or super sad and then a few hous later I'll be fine. I do get hot flashes a good bit,my body will get tingly sometimes and I get super hot,then I'll get cold for a second and then I'm fine. It will last for a couple weeks. It's like I'm not myself for about two weeks and then right before I start I get happy again, I have more energy, I love everybody again, i reached the light at the end of the tunnel so to speak. but that doesnt last for long before i get moody again. I'm just really tired of all this. I would like to be consistent with my moods because I think I could get a lot more accomplished and be able to move farther foward in my life. I'm a smart,wise young female who could do so much if it wasnt such a roller coaster ride within myself. oh and i love having sex sometimes, i like it when the other person is happy and it feels good but i dont really desire it and I've never had an orgasm and I've been sexually active for 7 yrs. I know I just threw a lot down, maybe you can help, I dunno, point me somewhere. thanks. oh and i get super bloated and gassy and will feel like ive gained 10 pounds for a couple weeks at a time sometimes. when I was young I just had really really bad cramps and would be sad or moody for a couple of days, and as i get older it just gets worse and lasts longer.