I recently found out my husband has been watching gay porn on the internet. He was at one point chatting with gay men talking about wanting to have sex with them. When I confronted him about it he said that it was just a phase that he was going though and that he is over it now. Before finding out about this it had been over a year since we had sex, sine our child was born. Now I see that he is downloading porn from the net again this time women. I try to keep our sex regular but if we miss having sex one day he will find time alone so that he could jack off. My question is am I the problem or is he a porn addict?