we have been through councling twice but every time we get to why sex is not happing she changes the subject over and over to a void why this is not comming about she is not shy she will walk around in the nude or sit right down and kiss me while she is naked but when i try to direct it towards making love she will go to the phone in advoidance or wash dishes or strike up a conversation about work or other people then its time to go to bed or sleep. or I have to get a money order I don't know how to approach this situation we both really love each other but there is definately some trama she refuses to do sexual councleing , I don't know how to approach her so I am not intimidating. Please help