I hate this. I'll admit i'm a very sexually active person. I love to have sex and have been active since i was 15. I have been dating my boyfriend for over 3 years, but lately he just doesnt seem to want to have sex. I will say he has always been a little different about sex for example always having sex with his boxers on. We used to take showers together and now he locks the door when he takes a shower. Every time i try to touch him he moves my hand away. And whenever i bring the topic up it just upsets him saying "i'm sorry im not as sexually active as you are!" I'm sorry but once a month or once every two months is not enough for me. I know he can't be cheating he lives with me and we are always together..I just dont understand why he is like this. He was never very active in the beginning but lately is becoming a big problem for me. It seems weird to me since we are really young, we are both 22. Is the problem just me?