I met a great guy in 2002 through a friend. We dated for 4 years before getting married. The sex and relationship was awesome before he moved in with me in 2005. I also was diagnosed with bipolar disorder at about the same time. I miss the sex life we had, but I just don't desire sex any longer. We have had alot of problems becoming a blended family, I had three children previously, and he had never had children or had been married. I am not sure if it's the medication I take for my bipolar or if it's the situation we have at home that make it difficult for me to want to engage in sex. We did have another child together, he's now 2 yrs old. We typically have sex once a month, if that. I just never feel the need. I know it's important for marriage and I want to keep this marriage, I just don't how to feel the need again. I miss our close relationship!