My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. There's a lot of love and passion in the relationship, but he just can not seem to climax in a slow and gentle position... ever. I know that he cares for me, but the fact that we have to go really fast and really hard for him to finish really kills the romance. If we do have intercourse at a slow, gentle pace, he will last all night (I know that doesn't sound like much to complain about, but it does bother me.) I'd like him to reach climax during slow passionate sex as well, and not just in the hit-and-run fashion that usually does it. For the past few months he's stopped masturbating entirely, in the hopes that it would make him more sensitive during sex, but that hasn't worked. Any advice is helpful. All I can find when I search the web is information on premature ejaculation, which is not the same problem at all.