I'm really scared about this because this is not what my boyfriend and I believe. I don't know what we were thinking. We believe that you should wait to have sex until marriage. My last period ended on Labor Day weekend and I am trying to be patient for the next one but it's killing me. I think i am bloated but it seems like it's taking forever for me to have my period. I'm only 20, not married, and went against mine and my families beliefs. It is wrong to have sex or even get pregnant before marriage. I can't have a child. I am so scared. I don't know what to think. Please help me!