Is there anything,anything to make my desire for sex disappear? Why? For nthe first time isd decades, I met and fell I love with a man. The love was not returned. We were never intimate, yet, since I met him, my sexual urges have been off the wall. These extreme feelings have not abated in 2 years! There is no other man in my life so I am back where I was so there is no opportunity for, even, an encounter. I have read about women who are married and have no sex drive. I would gladly give mine to one of them! How can I get rid of these feelings? If I could, I would go with the man for even one night and the feelings would over, (I think) but that is not possible, now,for he is married.