Hi
I am 45 years old, I was diagnosed with a learning disability when I was young, ADHD, but I did not received support from my parents so I had low confidence and search to much approbation. I took a neuropsychology test and was diagnosed with ADHD mostly with attention defficit. I became codependant, pleasing the control from others, boyfriends. I met my husband 14 years ago, he was a professionnal workaddic but I tought it was a quality. Until he judged me with my ADHD and underaccomplishment. I take pristiq and concerta. He was passive-agressive with me and I depreciated myself. I waited so long because I tried to understand him first. I went to therapy because he tought it was my problem, he was the family leader. I was working 36hrs a week in a work I disliked. With my therapy it made him realized he did not love me anymore and he ask for a separation. I found myself very dependant, I decided to go back to school at 45 years old. I cannot change myself, but maybe I can change my situation... English is not my first language, sorry.