I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months and I know he loves me however we have an issue with our sex life, he doesn't ever initiate sex. And he has not ever performed oral sex. I have brought up the sex issue but not the oral sex part, either way I feel like there is something wrong with me, he is a very shy person. I have asked him about why this happens he says he doesn't know but I am not the first one to bring it up. I asked him if it was me he said of course not, but we will work through it. So far nothing has been worked out, and he told he does get horny however I think its a confidence issue, but not sure. Does anyone have any ideas?