i have been with my boyfreind for over a year and whenever we are together we have sex but its always the same pretty much scheduled, dont get me wrong its great but im still young i want to mix it up and i want it more than once a day, i will try to initate and get shot down! this really hurts my pride and just makes me feel stupid like a child got caught doing something bad or something,,it makes me want to use the "i have a headache so he can know how it feels! but i cant and he knows it i think thats the problem, he knows he can have me on his schedule because i cant turn it down! help ladies is this my problem or is his sex drive down or what??