My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 3 years now, and are currently on a sex hiatus. We started having sex about after a year - I didn't want to regret my decision. And we don't have sex a lot, by any means, he has panic disorder and sexual stuff really freaks him out, but we haven't had sex since August of last year. It's really getting me down. I just feel awful all the time. Like, he doesn't want me anymore and all that good stuff. I keep trying to talk to him, but he keeps saying that sex isn't everything, and when I try to tell him how important it is, he doesn't understand why I get so upset. I just don't get it. It's not like I'm expecting anything that didn't happen before, but he just won't budge. And I know he's not cheating, because he works from home and is also super anxious about anything involving other people. I just don't know what to do anymore. It's getting me so depressed now that I don't want to do anything even remotely sexual anymore. Not unless it's sex - which he makes sure won't happen. Please help me! I'm at a total loss, here...