Sometimes when my husband wants sex he says vulgar things to me that make me feel like I am supposed to be his whore. Things like "I want you to sit on my face", or "let me see that sexy pussy". I don't appreciate being talked to like this and I have told him it makes him seem like a creepy old man at a strip club. It genuinely hurts his feeling when I tell him I don't like it. He's not a big porn watcher or an aggressive type person so I don't understand where this comes from. I don't want to hurt his feelings, but this turns me off big time. What should I do? I know my question is graphic but I am really asking for help here.