I have been with my now husband for a total of 6 years. One year married. We do have regular sex, but I have never climaxed(orgasm). He finishes every time no matter what. But its not our sex that is the problem because I have never been able to make myself orgasm either. I also never masturbated when growing up, I just never felt the need to experience( or maybe was embarrassed) . I feel bad because my husband doesn't know how to fix it and I think he might feel like its his fault. I am looking for some suggestions on things I can try alone so I know my body better.
Also is this common for woman to never experience with masturbating. Then go into a committed relationship not knowing how to pleasure themselves in the first place??