hi all,i am a 17 yo female and I finding it hard to love and accept myself.i have self-esteem issues mainly about my weight (i'm 5'7 and 198 lbs although the relevance of that I'm not sure)I'm losing weight maybe not for the right reasons but I'm doing it and I know it's unrealistic to think my confidence issues will disolve once I do get down to my goal but I don't know of any other way to be happy with myself.i constantly compare myself to other girls and wish to be/look like them...my question is how can I learn to love myself and not aspire to be like others?