Alright well I'm 22 year old female. With a 41 year old male.... I've been with him for 2 years. A lot of people find it rather odd but I love the guy... We used to fuck like rabbits all the time... atleast 3-5 times a day... Now it's been 3 months since we've even just fucked. The asshole can get me all turned on then he just roles over and goes to sleep. I'm at my wits end and don't know what the fuck to do. I've tried seducing him. Role playing with him. Anything to get him just to fuck... Now is it the fact that he's lost his sex drive or is it me? I mean I'm not fuckin ugly by any means. Now I've been with a couple guys that have cheated on me in this type of situation... Do you think he could honestly be doing that? Is there anything I could do to help him get the urge to just fuck again?