I'm 38 and soon to be father. My 24 yr old girlfriend and I seemed to have a great relationship. We wanted to get married and have a child together. We even picked out the best dates for her to conceive. This was her idea and I thought it was a great one concidering we hadn't had any luck in the past months. We were so excited when we found out that she was pregnant.
Now she's 3 months pregnant and is depressed all the time. She constantly has morning sickness. I can deal with this, I feal so bad for her having to experience these things. If I could I would take all of it on myself.
For the past month and a half she has been completely distant with me. She doesn't want me to look at her, be seen in public with me ( she actually told me that she could do a whole lot better than me in the looks department), touch her, hold her, kiss her, be intimate with her ( I find her loking at porn, but when I start to look at it she gets extremely upset). Sorry if that was to much information. I just don't know what to do and don't know if this is normal for a certain percentage of pregnant woman.
There was a time when we were in love and got along great, but since about a month into her pregnancy she's become so distant with me, I dont know how much more I can handle. I need help. I've tried everything I could think of, I don't know what else I can do.
She's told me that she hopes it's her hormonal changes that's making her feel this way towards me, but she doesn't know. Is there a chance that the pregnancy is causing these feelings she has towards me?
Please be honest with your input.
Thank you