I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now and I'm really fed up with the way things are. Everything was great at the beginning and I was really happy. However, lately I've begun to feel miserable and I'm not sure what to do. My boyfriend has two teenage kids which wasn't a problem for me. I don't have any kids but would like some one day. His kids were the only reason we argued and I realised that every time I asked him to talk to them about something that was affecting me or the house (I moved in), he would say I should tell them. His kids are a touchy subject because they have been through a lot (he's had to be both mum and dad for a while) and he compensates by letting them do whatever they like and my feelings are just not important. I understand that they will always come first, I just want a little support every once in a while. He is so preoccupied with other things that I feel I'm just there to tidy up after everyone. I've gained quite a bit of weight since we met and feel that this affects the way he sees me. We haven't been intimate for a while and I feel he isn't sexually attracted to me anymore. I can't remember the last time, we spent good quality time together. I'm slowly going insane because I've tried to talk to him on a few occasions and all I get is if you don't like it, you know where the door is which is very hurtful. I've put my heart and soul into this relationship and don't think we have a future. I just don't know how to walk away. Please help!!!